Shauhar ko Biwi Ke Sath Kaise Suluk Karne Chahiye? Biwi ka Haque aur Shauhar ka Farj.
NIKAH INN ISLAM ( PART 25 )
MIYA BIWI KE AADAAB:
KHULASA-
Yeh Majmun Imam Gazaali Ki Kmo Besh 950 Saal
Purani Kitaab Se Liya Gaya Hai
BIWI KE AADAAB-
(Shohar Ko Chahiye Ki)
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Biwi Ke Saath Husne Suluk Se Pesh Aae
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Narmi Ke Saath Guftagu Kre
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Mahbbat Wa Chaahat Ka Izhaar Kre
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Tanhaai Me Uske Saath Khush Mizaji
Aur Be Takallufi Se Pesh Aae
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Lagzisho Se Dar Guzar Kre
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Ldaai Jhagda N Kre
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Uski Izzat Ki Hifaazat Kre
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Kisi Muaamle Me Us Se Bahaso Mubahsa N Kre
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Bigair Kanjusi Kiye Uski Muaavanat Kre
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Uske Ghar Walo Ki Izzat Wa Taa’zim Kre
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Hamesha Achchhe Vaa’de Kre
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Apni Biwi Par Shadid Gairat Khaae
(Ki Voh Apna Husno Jmal Gair Ke Samne Zaahir N Kre)
SHOHAR KE AADAAB-
(Biwi Ko Chahiye Ki)
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Hamesha Shohar Se Haya Kre
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Us Se Ldaai Jhagda N Kre
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Hamesha Shohar Ke Har Hukam Ki Ita’at Kre
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Jab Shohar Klaam(Baat)Kre To Khaamoshi Ikhtiyaar Kre
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Uski Gair Maujudgi Me Uski Izzat Ki Hifaazat Kre
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Shohar Ke Maal Me Khiyaanat N Kre
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Muh Ki Sfaai Aur Kapdo Ki Paakizgi Ka Khaas Khyal Rakhe
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Qna’at Pasandi Ikhtiyaar Kre
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Mahbbat Wa Shafqat Ka Andaz Apnaae
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Shohar Ke Ghar Walo Aur Qraabat Daaro Ka Ehtiraam Kre
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Achchhe Andaaz Me Us Ka Haal Daryaaft Kre
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Us Ke Har Kaam Ko Shukriya Ke Saath Qabul Kre
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Jab Shohar Ka Qurb Paae To Us Se Mahbbat Ka Izhaar
Aur
Jab Use Dekhe To Khushi Wa Masrrat Ka Izhaar Kre
(AL ADABO FID DEEN Musannif- Syyiduna Imam Gazaali)
MIYA BIWI KA EK DUSRE KO PUKARNA:
Aurat Ko Yeh Makruh Hai Ki Shohar Ko Naam Lekar Pukare
(DURRE MUKHTAR Jild 9 Page 690)
Baa’z Jaahilo Me Yeh Mashahur Hai Ki
Aurat Agar Shohar Ka Naam Ley Le Tou
Nikaah Tut Jata Hai Yeh Galat Hai
Shaayad Is Liye Garhaa Ho Ki Is Dar Se Ki
Tlaaq Ho Jaegi Shohar Ka Naam N Legi
(BAHAARE SHARI’AT Jild 3 Page 657)
Pahle Ki Aurate Is Qadar Hyaadaar Hoti Thi Ki
Apne Shohar Ka Naam Lete Huve Jhijkti Thi
Aur Munne Ke Abbu Vgaira Kahti Thi
Magar Ab To Bila Taklluf
“Mere Miya, Mere Shohar, Mere Husband” Kahti Hai
Aur
Mard Bhi Mere Bachcho Ki Ammi Vgaira Kahane Ke Bjae
“Meri Biwi, Meri Wife, Meri Ghar Wali” Kahate Hai,
Apne Bachcho Ke Mamu Ka T’aaruf Krvane Ka
Kaafi Shauq Dekha Gaya Hai
Agarche Voh Cousin Ho Tab Bhi Bila Zarurat
Sirf “Saala” Kah Kar T’aaruf Krvaenge
Gaaliban Hazze Nafs Ke Liye Aisa Kiya Jata Hoga
Koshish Frmaiye Ki Muhazzab Alfaz Zuban Par Aae
Haa
Zaruratan Biwi Ya Shohar Vagaira Ka Rishta Btane Me Haraj Bhi Nahi
★ Allah Ta’ala hamen islami
Masail ko sikhne aur samajhne
Ki toufiq ataa farmaye
*Aameen* ★
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