Kya Kisi Bete Ki Kamjori Ki wajah Se Use Hm Jayedad Me Jyada De Sakte Hai?
ATIYA O HADIYA WAGHAIRA DENEME AULรD KE DARMIYรN "ADL" KARNร "WรJIB" HAi
❣Hazrat Noumรฃn bin Basheer Razi'Allahu anha sรจ riwรฃyat hai ke "inkรจ Wรฃlid nรจ inhรจ Rasool'Allah( ๏ทบ) ki khidmat mรจ layรจ aur arz kiyรฃ mai nรจ apnรจ iss bรจtรจ ko ek(1) ghulรฃm bataurรจ hadiyรฃ diyรฃ hai- Aap( ๏ทบ) nรจ daryรฃft farmรฃyรฃ kyรฃ aisรฃ hee ghulรฃm apnรจ doosrรจ ladkon ko bhi diyรฃ hai? Inhonรจ kahรฃ nahi, tou Aap( ๏ทบ) nรจ farmรฃyรฃ phir (iss sรจ bhi) Wรฃpas lรจlo"
2) Ek riwรฃyat me yรจ lfรฃz hai ke Rasool'Allah( ๏ทบ) nรจ farmรฃyรฃ:
،ูุงุชููุง ุงููู ูุง ุนุฏููุง ุจูู ุงููุงุฏูู ;1
"Allah-ta'ala sรจ Daro aur Apni Aulรฃd kรจ darmiyรฃn adl karo"
2) Ek riwรฃyat me yรจ lfรฃz hai ke Rasool'Allah( ๏ทบ) nรจ farmรฃyรฃ:
،ูุงุชููุง ุงููู ูุง ุนุฏููุง ุจูู ุงููุงุฏูู ;1
"Allah-ta'ala sรจ Daro aur Apni Aulรฃd kรจ darmiyรฃn adl karo"
❣ Hazrat Noumรฃn bin Basheer (r.z.a) sรจ marwi ek riwรฃyat mรจ hai ke Rasool'Allah( ๏ทบ) nรจ teen (3) martaba farmรฃyรฃ ( ูุง ุนุฏููุง ุจูู ุงููุงุฏูู
)
"Apni aulรฃd ke Darmiyรฃn insรฃf karo"2
"Apni aulรฃd ke Darmiyรฃn insรฃf karo"2
*(1) Bukhari(2586 , 2587)kitab al-habba wa fazlahรฃ wal tahereez alaiha:*
*Muslim(1623)kitab al-habbรฃt; Ahmed(268/4); moutta(751/2);*
*Tirmezi(1367)kitab al-hukam; Ibn majja(2376) kitab al-hukam"*
*Hameedi(411/2), sharah ma'ani al-asar(84/4)*
*Daar qutni(42/3) ,Baheqi(176/6) , sharah al sunna(425/4)*
*Muslim(1623)kitab al-habbรฃt; Ahmed(268/4); moutta(751/2);*
*Tirmezi(1367)kitab al-hukam; Ibn majja(2376) kitab al-hukam"*
*Hameedi(411/2), sharah ma'ani al-asar(84/4)*
*Daar qutni(42/3) ,Baheqi(176/6) , sharah al sunna(425/4)*
*(2) Sahih abu dawood(3028) abu dawood(3544); Nisai(262/6)*
*Ahmed(275/4)*
*Ahmed(275/4)*
1⃣ (Imรฃm ibn qayyim.r.a) Hadees me hukm wajoob ke liye hai aur un Hazrรฃt ka qoul intehayi ta'ajjub kher hai jo kahete hai ke ye hukm wajoob ke liye nahi balke istehbaab ke liye hai.
*Tohfatul moudood(200/ุต); alam al mouqeen(329/2)*
*Tohfatul moudood(200/ุต); alam al mouqeen(329/2)*
2⃣(Imรฃm Bukhรฃri r.a) Farmate hai apne baaz ladkon ko agar (kisi ne) koi cheez bature hubb di tou jab tak insaaf ke saath tamรฃm ladkon ko baraabar na deye hubb jayez nahi hoga.(1)
*Bukhari (2586)*
*Bukhari (2586)*
3⃣(Shaikh ibn baaz r.a) Aulad me se baaz ko baaz doosron par fazeelat dena manรฃ hai aur inke darmiyรฃn adl karna Wajib hai khawรฃh wo ladke ho ya ladkiyรฃn-(2)
*fatรฃwi al jama'a al mara't al muslima(116- 115/3)*
*fatรฃwi al jama'a al mara't al muslima(116- 115/3)*
4⃣(shaikh ibn uthaymeen r.a) "Insรฃn ke liye jรฃyez nahi ke wo apni aulรฃd me Ek ko doosre par Fazeelat de".
*{Fatรฃwi islรฃmiya:(30/3)}*
*{Fatรฃwi islรฃmiya:(30/3)}*
5⃣(Shaikh ibn jibreen) " Wรฃlid par laazim hai ke wo apni aulรฃd ke darmiyรฃn Adlo insaaf se kaam le aur inme se kisi ko bhi kisi doosre par Kuch dene' na dene' koi Hadiyรฃ o Atiya wagairah atรฃ karne me fazeelat na de".
*{(Fatรฃwi al marrรฃh al muslimah(935/ุต,)}*
*{(Fatรฃwi al marrรฃh al muslimah(935/ุต,)}*
Mรฃloom huva ke "Wรฃlid par Wรฃjib hai ke wo apni saari aulรฃd ke darmiyaan Adl kare"- " Agar ek ko kuch de tou baqi Beton ya Betiyon ko bhi wo cheez de", "warna ek ko bhi nรฃ de aur agar Walid aisรฃ nahi kartรฃ balke apne baaz bacchon ko baaz doosron par fouqiyat o fazeelat detรฃ hai tou bilรฃshuba Roze Qayรฃmat Baargรฃhe ILรHI me iskรฃ jawรฃb dah hogรฃ.
*AGAR KOI BACHCHร ZYรDAH FARMรNBARDรR HO TOU KYร WรLID USร DOOSRE BACHCHON SE ZYรDAH DE SAKTร HAI❓*
▶Shaikh ibn baaz r.a:- Kisi ne daryรฃft kiyรฃ ke kuch bachche apne waledain ke saath husno sulook aur sila rahmi karne me doosron se imtiyรฃz rakhte hai, jiski wajha se waledain bhi iske saath husno sulook aur atiya o tahรฃyif dene me khusoosi muรฃmlรฃt karte hai kyun ke isne bhi apne walid ke saath sila rahmi me mumtรฃz haisiyat rakhi hai, tou kyรฃ iss imtiyรฃz ki binรฃ par iski sila rahmi ke auz ise aur atiya dene me khusoosi riรฃ'yat denรฃ adal o insรฃf hai⁉️
Shaikh ne jawรฃb diyรฃ:
⭕️isme koi shak o shuba nahi ke aulรฃd me se kuch bachche bahetar aur achche hote hai aur iska ilm bhi har ek ko hai, " lekin iss wajha se Walid ke liye ye jayez nahi ke wo kisi ko doosre par tarjee de" balke ise Nabi kareem( ๏ทบ) ke Farmรฃn par amal karte huve adalo insรฃf ka muzรฃhra karnรฃ chรฃhiye- Nabi kareem( ๏ทบ) ka farmรฃn hai{
،ูุงุชููุง ุงููู ูุง ุนุฏููุง ุจูู ุงููุงุฏูู }
"Allah-ta'ala se daro aur apni aulรฃd ke darmiyรฃn adl karo"
،ูุงุชููุง ุงููู ูุง ุนุฏููุง ุจูู ุงููุงุฏูู }
"Allah-ta'ala se daro aur apni aulรฃd ke darmiyรฃn adl karo"
"Lehรฃza Walid ke liye jรฃyez nahi ke wo kisi ek bachche ko doosre se imtiyรฃzi haisiyat detรฃ ho iske saath doosre se bahetar sulook kare", Balke Wajib ye hai ke wo aulรฃd me Sab ke saath adlo insรฃf se kaam le, balke ise sab ko naseehat karni chรฃhiye taake wo neki o husno sulook aur Allah-ta'ala aur iske Rasool ki farmรฃnbardรฃri kare-
Lekin ise atiya dene me kisi bhi bachche ke darmiyรฃn fazeelat se kaam nahi lenรฃ chรฃhiye "aur nรฃ hee wo baaz ke liye wasiyat kare aur baaz ko kuch na de" , balke wo sab wirรฃsat me barรฃbar ke shareek hai aur inhe atiya o miraas me
se hisse milenge jo Shariyate islรฃmiyรฃ ne inke liye moqarrar kardye hai ise inke maabean Adl se kaam lenรฃ hogรฃ jaisรฃ ke shartiyate islรฃmiyรฃ me moujood hai lehรฃza Mard ko Aurat se dugnรฃ milegรฃ-
Agar wo Beton ko ek hazaar(1000) de tou betiyon ko paancvh sau(500) milegรฃ aur agar wo aqal mand hoshiyรฃr aur bรฃligh hote huve ek doosre ko muรฃf karden aur wรฃze taur par ijรฃzt den ke hamare bhai ko itna de do tou koi harj nahi-
Lehรฃza agar bagair kisi chupรฃu aur qouf o khudsha ke kahete hai ke Hamรฃri taraf se aap ise gaadi ya fulรฃn cheez de sakte hai tou isme koi harj nahi-
Lekin ise atiya dene me kisi bhi bachche ke darmiyรฃn fazeelat se kaam nahi lenรฃ chรฃhiye "aur nรฃ hee wo baaz ke liye wasiyat kare aur baaz ko kuch na de" , balke wo sab wirรฃsat me barรฃbar ke shareek hai aur inhe atiya o miraas me
se hisse milenge jo Shariyate islรฃmiyรฃ ne inke liye moqarrar kardye hai ise inke maabean Adl se kaam lenรฃ hogรฃ jaisรฃ ke shartiyate islรฃmiyรฃ me moujood hai lehรฃza Mard ko Aurat se dugnรฃ milegรฃ-
Agar wo Beton ko ek hazaar(1000) de tou betiyon ko paancvh sau(500) milegรฃ aur agar wo aqal mand hoshiyรฃr aur bรฃligh hote huve ek doosre ko muรฃf karden aur wรฃze taur par ijรฃzt den ke hamare bhai ko itna de do tou koi harj nahi-
Lehรฃza agar bagair kisi chupรฃu aur qouf o khudsha ke kahete hai ke Hamรฃri taraf se aap ise gaadi ya fulรฃn cheez de sakte hai tou isme koi harj nahi-
⭕️NOTE:- Zindagi me bachchon ke darmiyรฃn taqseem ki jaane wรฃli jaaydรฃd Hubb kahelรฃyegi aur aulรฃd ko koi bhi cheez Hubb karne kรฃ Usool ye hai ke jo cheez ek ko di jaaye wahi cheez Baaqi sab Bachchon ko bhee dรฎ jaaye aur agar itni isteta'at Na ho tou ek ko bhi Na dรฎ jaaye-
Albatta itni gunjรฃyish zaroor hai ke agar koi bachcha zyรฃda Tangdast ghareeb aur mohtaaj ho tou baaqi bachchon ke Mashware aur ijรฃzat o razรฃmandi se ise doosre se zyรฃda diyรฃ jaa saktรฃ hai- kyun ke ye inka haq hai aur jab wo apna haq iske liye khud chodne par tayyรฃr ho jaayen tou isme koi harj nahi.
{{(1)Bukhari:2587;kitab al hubb o fazlaha wal tahereez alaiha; Baab; al habba lil walad}}*
{{(2)majuma al fatรฃwi ibn baaz (234/9)}}*
{{(2)majuma al fatรฃwi ibn baaz (234/9)}}*
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