Stammering (Haklaahat) ek Psychological (Dimagi) Bimari hai.
Bahot se logo ko Haklaane yani ruk-ruk kar baat karne ki adat hoti hai jisko Stammering kaha jata hai. Is bimari me bachho se lekar Budhe tak shamil hote hai.
Haqiqat me stammering koi Jismani yani Zuban ki bimari ka naam nahi hai balke ye ek Psychological (Dimagi) bimari hai jo 100℅ curable hai.
Is bimari ko jad se khatm karna ho to insan ko DIMAGI (PSYCHOLOGY) TAUR par strong hona padega. In shaa'a ALLAH, dhire dhire se is bimari ko khatam kiya jaa sakta hai.
❓ *YE BIMARI KYUN AATI HAI?
1. Iski sabse pahli wajah EHSAASE KAMTARI KA SHIKAR HO JANA HAI jisko INFERIORITY COMPLEX* kaha jata hai yani *DUSRO KO apne se ZYADA BADA aur HOSHIYAR SAMAJNA aur KHUD KO KAMTAR SAMJNA.
2. Is EHSAASE KAMTARTI ki wajah se INSAN ke DIL me darr paida hota hai aur baat karte waqt DIL DHADAKNE LAGTA hai aur Saanse phulne lagti hai aur dimaag me sonch aati hai ke mai baat karunga to kahi log hasenge to nahi ya kahi mazak to nahi udayenge is wajah se baat ruk-ruk kar nikalti hai jisko HAKLAANA kaha jata hai.
❓ *ISKA ILAAJ kya hai?
1. Sabse pahle Allah se dua mange ke ALLAH mujh me HIMMAT ataa kare.
2. Hamesha baat karne se pahle ye dua padhe:
Surah 20 Taha: Ayat 25-28.*
3. Apni Baat karne ki speed ko kam kiya jaaye aur jumlo ko tod tod (break) ke slow speed se baat kiya jaaye.
◼Jab ye practice aap kuchh mahino ke liye karoge to In shaa'a ALLAH kuchh hi mahino me aap is bimari par kaabu paaloge.
4. Aap gaur kijiye ke kin alfaazo ko adaa karne me rukaawat aarahi hai un alfaazo ko akele me MIRROR KE SAMNE THAHERKAR PRACTICE KI JAAYE.
5. Is bimari ka shikar ho aur agar aap Teacher, Lecturer, Professor ya Salesman ho to jo Lesson aapko kal Class me Padhana ho ya Customer se jo dealing wali baat karna to us lesson ko ya us baat ko ek baar mirror ke Samne akele me practise karke jaaye taake Dil me ka darr nikal jaaye aur actual situation me apko baat karne me fluency bhi aajaayegi.
Khulasa:
Stammering bas ek Zaheni dar ka naam hai jo apko baat karne me rukaawat paida karta hai. Proper training aur counselling se ye masla bilkul 100℅ hal hosakta hai.
Agar ye Jismani bimari yani apki zuban me kuchh fault ya defect hota to jab aap bachho se aur ekele me baat karte waqt bhi haklaahat hona chahiye tha lekin aap akele me jab koi geet ya song acche se gaa lete ho lekin public me aate hi haklaahat paida hojaati hai. Jaisa ke apka hath agar fracture hota hai to akele me bhi dard hota hai aur public me bhi dard hota hai. Isko jismani bimari kahte hai lekin 99 cases me stammering ek Mental yani psychological problem hota hai.Allahu Aalam Bis-Sawab.
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